OK I have been busy measuring up my car.
I know the problem but am unsure how to go about fixing it!
First I got a reference from the rear axle.

Then I dropped a plumbline down from the center of each strut tower.
Marked these points on the floor and used a laser to get a straight edge.



Passenger side measurement

Driver side measurement

The difference is 12 mm , This would explain the problems mounting my crossmember to the engine, as the passengers side would not bolt up to the engine by about 12 mm.
i could redrill the location of the front crossmember this would bring the front and rear axle in parrallel. However without moving the front strut top also I would have castor issues
If I redrill the crossmember passanger side I now have discrepencies with the front ARB mounts


I really need to figure a way to fix the damage that has occured behind the strut tower


If I check the locations of the strut towers left adn right i again find a 12 mm Difference.


in essense the front strut tower would need to move forward/be redrilled.

can anyone help with a solution? I dont want to pull the whole front end off and weld a new one on. I cant see what I should change to fix the problem?
TIA
Emil