Quick update.
3.54 is in with the 5 speed.
1st gear is still too short! I think the best set up would be 3.77 with 2.98 1st gear.
3.54 still good and makes the most of the torque especially with my 38DG*S.
You just really have to watch what gear you're in at certain revs. 3.54 has made the motor hungry for redline, which you need to hit anyway for when the revs drop after gear changes. The best thing about it is when you back off, the car doesn't want to come to a halt like it did with 4.125!
Cheers