ok prob solved, i went out there and talked to her for a while then beat the freak outa it with a mallet and viola! yeh i just angled it level wit someone holding it level with the bracket then belted the poo poo outa it and it popped in!
now the only thing stopping me is a rouge bolt that wont do up, got a mate bringin some vicegrips round tomora to get her done[:p]

cheers
Rhys