Cheers Gdub the joys of flea-bay!! Win some lose some.
Quick update if anyone cares...
The replacement seal seemed to fit pretty well, I thought I'd offer it up to see how much difference there was. The seal had to be knocked in to fit so I figured it turns out as the right one after all. Just to be sure I fitted it with a smear of silicon gasket sealant so we'll see how it goes.
Thanks again guys for your advice.