well I got a bit of time on Monday to buy a 3ohm coil so I ran a wire straight to the coil from ignition barrel.
I let the car idle for a while and tried to simulate when it stalls .. didn't stall on idle in the driveway.
I decided to take it for a spin and see if it would stall, it didn't stall and was running ok besides needing a good tune to the holley carb. wasn't a very hot evening and the car ran cool, so I will take it out again when its a bit warmer. so far its seem like the problem has gone away finger's crossed it was the resistor wire , or could even be the tacho. I didn't wire it up to the tacho but once I test it and no stalling issue I will wire it back up to tacho.
I also will be looking to either replace the resistor wire or disconnect it altogether, and will also be checking every wire connector from the ignition to tacho and so on all the way to the coil just in case of a dirty joint or bad connection. finger's crossed that was the problem.