Hi and welcome !
Just use a regular black 4 pin relay or 5 pin to run both lights.
I'm no car sparky either, tho I do know mk1 Escort does melt switches as the current goes thru the switch to the lights instead of the switch being a switch to turn on lights.
I generally use a relay box the size of a cigarette packet , they've fuses and work great , twin relay kit from eBay or your local parts shop..