Mark, I dont know about who'd do the special washer, apart from the standard answer/question:
have you tried yesterford? I'm sure Mike would have them or know where.
I'd never picked up you could get nutted studs for the alloy hubs before. I'd be finer (r?) with that, than perhaps what i'd imagined the case was using the alloy hub with the suds just screwed in somehow. I found it hard to track down the OEM steel hubs for the Capri, and actually Mike put me off the concept of the alloy ones at the time, but thats nearly all you can find these days. Plus Burtons, GP 4 etc all seem to sell them everywhere of course.
My escort van needs longer studs to cope with the proposed alloys, and at least one stud has the knurled hole ovaled, which I did not find out until trying to do the upgrade. So i'll be going down some form of this path shortly.
And also, its surprisingly hard (bordering on impossible) to press in a stud with the next size up collar diameter (14.1-14.3mm? maybe from memory), and I'm guessing you cant just redrill the holes out to go up a size (and lose the locking knurl in the process)?